I Beg You

I sit her waiting 

Begging you for more

Everything I'm feeling 

Gets me off more

Your touch drives me crazy

Only you are allowed to touch

Unlikely to leave you because I need You 

Long Night

        The night filled with emotions as we kept drinking away, a bottle of Jack killed. Talking about life it gets intense, Talking about us, Talking about everything. Fueled up by emotions, I had an Idea that it was coming. Before it came, before our night Escalated. You told me everyone uses people, people they love, people they don't care for, friends, family. Everyone uses people! I told you I do not use you and I sure don't, if I did we wouldn't be in a relationship, we wouldn't have what we have. If I wanted to use you I wouldn't feel how I feel towards you. It wouldn't be Love it would be just Lust!

        So our night Escalated and there we were, well there I was sitting down on the chair and next thing I know.... There was a bandana rolled up and wrapped around my mouth like a gag. Not able to talk just made to listen "Stand up". Bending me over the chair I felt in your control. Not knowing what's coming next only hearing what your doing in the background. As you glide your hand across my ass I started to tense up a bit not knowing whats gonna happen. A slight moan escapes my lips as you spank me with a firm hand. Excited for what's coming next I relax, my breathing gets heavier as I'm left to the not knowing. A few hand prints left on my ass before I felt your belt every swing got heavier and in-between gentle kisses and rubs making sure I was okay before he whacked me a few more times with no breaks in-between. My breathing gets heavier than ever moans escaping my mouth, thinking this was all that was coming.... I then felt the metal spatula softly being rubbed against my already marked, already red ass. First swing of it hitting me let out gentle soft moan coming from my lips and my body tensing up a bit. As your hand rubbed my ass down making my body relax yet again, a few more hits from it each intensifying more and more. Tears start to accumulate not because I don't like it, but because it feels so good and all the emotions are catching up to each whack I get. It's hard to explain.... I love pain, I have a high tolerance, this is just a way to reset myself, to reset him, a way to escape from your head, a way to release all your emotions.

A forbidden love for pain.

Where's My Daddy

Where's My Daddy
That tells me what to do
Where's My Daddy
That tells me what to wear
Where's My Daddy
That tells me how to act
How he wants my hair done up in pigtails
Where's My Daddy
Did I lose him?
How can I find him?
Did he move on?
Even though he's right there beside me
Am I what he wants still?
Or am I too fat?
Does he hate me?
What did I do wrong?
I try to please him
Get on my knees and beg for him
Open my mouth and take him in
Let him enjoy all of me
And all my holes
For I am His and His Alone
But I think he forgot about me
I think he's tired of me
Where's My Daddy
How can I get him back
The old messages send my mind to wonder
As my fingers start to get closer
Trying to be Sexy for Daddy
Does he not like it?
Is it me?
Am I not what he wants anymore
I aim to please
My fingers stop as thoughts of losing my Daddy terrifies me
Then again they wonder
As I think of when he bent me over last
Pulling my hair
Spanking me
Telling me I'm His
And He's Mine
Playing with me
As I get him off
But then my fingers stop
Where's My Daddy
Do I not please him anymore
Am I not attractive enough for him
What do I have to do to get him back
Where's My Daddy
The thoughts run through my head
Fingers twitching to finish
But wanting to finish for him
Where's My Daddy
He's there in front of me
Beside me
On me
But Where's My Daddy
I Love My Daddy
And I will always
And I will always want him
But will or does Daddy always want me?
Where's My Daddy

Moonlight

For I see
The needs in your eyes
      as I walk by
The moon light brightens my day
I get to see you
Be with you
Hold you
The bad things come along
As the stars start to light the sky
The tequila starts to take effect
I always want you
But getting this warm feeling
    thats not caused from the sun
The numbness starts to take over
I feel nothing
But I want to feel everything
As the moon gets brighter
My need for you gets stronger
I want to feel
Your hands glide across my skin
As goosebumps arise
I want to feel
Your kisses all over my body
As I start to get weak,
       wet
I want to feel
That sting from you hand on my ass
As I start to beg
I want to feel all of you
As the moon gets brighter
And the tequila takes effect
I feel everything
Daddy
I love you!

Thank you Daddy

As you touch my body

I quiver

Your hands have a strong effect on me

Making me weak

Open to you

Having full trust in you

As you are my Dom

Daddy

Sir

You bend me over your lap

Gliding your hand across my ass

Then one quick slap

As a slight moan pierces through my lips

You do it once more

Rubbing my ass gently

After very spank 

It gets more intense each time

Gliding your hand across my ass once more

You start to pull down my pants

A quick slap to my Ass 

Then as your remove my panties

My bare ass slightly pink 

You notice it's not red enough

"Babygirl have you been good?"

As that question echoes in my ear

I get goosebumps

Turned on not only my your Hands

But by how you talk to me

The way the words Slips out of your mouth

Then I replied

"Yes Daddy!"

A heavy hand you have

Now making my Ass more red

The sight of your handprint excites you

Noticing my cheeks getting redder each time

"Good Girl!"

Those two words

Those two words

Have more power than any others

Here at your every will

I aim to please

And will always make sure

Your Happy with me

As you touch my body

I quiver

Your hands have a strong effect on me

And so does

Your Words

Your Touch

Your presence 

The trust in you is a big deal for me

I appreciate you

and

Everything you do for me

Taking care of me in other ways no one else would understand

Loving me on a whole different level

Thank you Daddy

Just Kiss Me!

All I Want Is For You To Kiss Me Like You Mean It

Love Me Like No Other

Spank Me Til The Our Safe Word Pierces My Lips

Bite Me Til I Scream Your Name

Pound Me Until You Hear Don't Stop

Daddy I Miss Miss Your Kiss

All I Want Is For You To Kiss Me Like You Mean It

Fuck Me Like It's Your Dying Wish

Tie Me To The Bed,

The Chair,

The Book Stand.

Somewhere Where You Can Take Full Control

Just Daddy 

All I Right Now Is You To Kiss Me

Kiss Me Like You Mean It

Daddy 

Oh Boy Do I Miss You!

Oh Boy Do I Miss You!

My body craves your touch 

The feeling of you hands grabbing my waist 

Tracking my spine with your finger tips 

As you forcefully clench my ponytail pulling my head back

Making Eye contact with you

I Stare deep into your Eyes

Not making one blink

Not looking away for anything

Taking in this moment for everything it's worth

And trust me

It's Wroth A LOT!

I crave your attention

When your Mad,

Upset,

Angry (Trust me they are all different when it comes to Daddy),

At me I try to make things better

I try to figure out what I've done wrong

My Apologies to you is simply 

Me on the floor on my Knees

Belt in hand or in mouth

Hoping that will solve everything

Oh I know that won't solve all our problems 

But thats always a good start

And I always am Sorry

For making Daddy 

Mad, Angry, Upset or even Frustrated 

But you know

I am a Brat

And he knows that too

And well if I wasn't 

He wouldn't Love me like he does

When you're even sad 

I crave it 

I know you want your space 

and all but 

I want to be in that space with you 

I want to be the one to make you Happy

I want to be the one to keep a smile on your face

I crave your attention 

I crave your touch

Daddy a message to you if you are reading this;

You Know This Is Whole Blog Is About Out Experience together. I just wanted to let you know that I enjoy you and our time together and I love being your Babygirl! 

Our time is Special to me!

Plus the Sex is Amazing!

Bend me over,

Blind fold me,

Cut me,

Use a belt,

Use a Wire,

Make me Bleed,

Make me scream tile the Safe Word Pierces my Lips!

Love You Daddy!!!!

Miss You Always 143

Dress Up!

Dress Up!

One of my favorite things to play with Daddy! I love taking a nice hot shower, washing my hair, making sure I am nice and smooth for Daddy so when he gets home from work he can play with me. After my shower and I shave, I make sure to find Cute Sexy Panties and a bra.... And of course one of HIS shirts unbuttoned. Than I do my make-up a bit try a doll myself up a bit for him make my self look cute. 

All this for Daddy and more...

Daddy Dom

        If you have never been in a BDSM relationship, or a Daddy Babygirl relationship you would think I would be talking about a Father. First off let me just say a Daddy Dom does not promote pedophilia or incest. People who don't understand the BDSM community might think it is like that, but it is most certainly far from it. A Daddy Dom is caring, loving, respectful, has rules, and will punish you if you are bad or break any rules. 

            A Daddy Dom is his Babygirl's biggest fan. He believes in her more then she believes in herself, sees her for who she is and what she can become. Supports everything she does, attempts or accomplishes.  He sees his Babbygirl for who she is and all her flaws. Open's up on a deep level with her and allows her to be able to do the same. When she is upset and she tries to hide it he already know's, even if he doesn't know exactly what is wrong, he know's that there is something up. wants her to be able to cry in front of him. Wants her to be able to feel relax and at ease when showing her emotions. He never judges and is always there no matter what!

        Protects her, when she feels lost, scared, tired hating life, just is there to hold her whenever she needs it, and even when she wants it. He is her anchor no matter what happens in her life he is there for her.

        Teaches and guides her, gives her experiences shes never had. Answers her questions, gives her advice. Makes all her insecurities go away, and calms her fears.

        Disciplines her, a slightly sexual act of spanking her. Though this act is slightly sexual it might not turn into something more. The Daddy gets off on punishing and making sure his babygirl understands her punishment and she gets off on the punishment itself. Now Most times a Daddy Dom loves to dominate her sexually as well and the relationship might mix in sadism and masochism. Where He himself is the sadist and loves to push her to her limits and creates the very tears that he will later kiss away and make better. She is the masochist who Loves to be pushed and will take what he does to her even if the safe word has to be said. Then at that point they both know her limit and he knows how far he can take her.

Daddys come in many flavors just like the Girls do!

        Being a Babbygirl I always want my Daddy! All the time no matter the time or day, I always want him. When I want to Snuggle its me wanting to feel the love, protected, and in general to just be wrapped up with his arms around me. Daddy has always been there for me even before he became my Daddy it was I guess just natural. I would have never of thought he would become something like he is to me now. It really just happened! He saw all of me, who i am all my flaws, my happy moments and my really depressing ones. And yet he is still here for me. Opened my eyes to a lot of new things, got me into music more, makes me feel cared for and loved when he shares his stuff with me. whether it be his drinks or food, music the stuff that he writes himself. Never once have I had someone compliment me and feel love that way, he does it all the time. NO I'm still not used to it, but im getting there. It always makes me smile.

        If we have a fight, we always end up making each other better and happy again. He is my happiness, my world, my life, my addiction, the venom in my blood, the blood that runs through my veins. He makes my heart beat, and gives me butterflies in my stomach all the time!

        My Daddy is the one person who actually really supports me for what i try and do whether it comes to my writing, drawing or even work. He is proud to see what I accomplish, and pushes me to go further. He might be the Dominant one and I might just be his Submissive I still and always will care for him. Make sure he is okay, do everything i possibly can to make him happy, make sure he is eating, share whatever I have with him. I love him and will always Love him. Sometimes you just find that one person who'd you never expect to find and just live yours lives either in a vanilla relationship or a Daddy/ Babbygirl one.


        My Daddy Like I said Is my Everything! He Makes me feel loved, wanted and cared for. He is there for me anytime just about. He pushes my limits with just about everything. He has brought me so far out of my comfort zone. The little things he says to me make me smile, even if its just a "I love you" or a simple "Hi" with a smile on his face. I can be myself with him and goof around together, but also be serious at the same time. When I always see him he has this look he gives me. Its like I'm the only person he sees, it gives me the goosebumps. And I Love when he looks at me like he wants to throw me against the wall and kiss me forever! He smiles and laughs and my heart just melts. When I am close to him I always get butterflies! I love everything about my Daddy He Looks at me, deep into my eyes and It really makes me a bit nervous. I want to have that moment always! I feel safe and secure with him!

        Discipline, when it comes to this I am under his control. He will spank me and once he his done it will turn sexual. He is my sadist loves to give me beatings and push my limits. I am his masochist and love to get beat and have my limits pushed. Now I am into a lot of different things and hes just tested about almost all of them. Now he has never done anything like this before but I have not taught him anything hes teaching himself. All that I am teaching him is my limits. I'm really into choking, knife play, spanked, whipped, being bit, and candle wax, now there is more but that's mainly what has been tested and pushed. He owns me always it's scared on my skin, I Love seeing the Love marks a few days after they were put on my skin, whether it be a bite mark, a hickie, a hand print or even marks left from a wire. It is never a dull moment always fun, and even though he inflicts pain sometimes to the point of me crying, it gets me off and he always takes care of me. Kisses away my tears rubs the spots he hit and kisses them. He also always asks me if I am okay and if he hurt me. If I did not use the safe word I am Fine! I love that he pushes my limits and I love that he takes care of me all around. We both get off and I love pleasing my Daddy!

Daddy The Word that Leave My Lips Constantly!

Kismet

      Whisper's in my ear on how he wants and needs me. Flushed from the thought of him actually meaning it! A smile carved on my face from him pulling my hair to get me closer to make sure I yearn on every word.

      His eyes I cling to, never before have I looked into any ones eyes the way I do with his. Dancing away, feeling our hearts beat as one. He is my Fate he is the one I've been yearning for. He is the one I fantasized about in movies. Never thought I'd find my reality!

      The feeling of the metal spatula hitting against my already sensitive bottom I feel the curiosity behind it. I feel him thinking about how I'm going to react to it, I just take it. Slight moans escape my mouth as he continues to leave me welts. A new pain I'm not used to but am really into! A grin appears on my face, from thinking about how he uses the spatula almost all the time, how he wears the belt he spanks my ass with knowing he used it on me before!

Never before have I felt this way. The way I do with you! You are truly my life my one love! The love that I thought I knew doesn't compare to how I truly feel about you!

As I sit here and wonder, I find myself writing you letters!

      "My Darlin Peach,
You were once a dream of mine, someone I thought truly never existed. But here you are right in front of me! My true reality! Now I just sit and wonder if we would truly ever be...... My mind goes crazy as I sit in thought of not being close to you!
        Your
   Juicy Olive"

     There I stood taken by surprise as you plant a random kiss upon my lips. Grabbing me out of no where..... The random everything's with you. I am very okay with all this!

My love for you grows and grows everyday.... But I know that my love for you will never end but we probably will  and I'm even okay with that. As long as I know I will never be forgotten.....

But here I think that I changed you not in a bad way just expanded your horizons. Never thought I'd hear you ask to cuddle or never would have thought that you would hug me without me asking.... I actually thought that you were very dominant, never thought I'd be getting you into something you knew very little about....

     "My Darlin Peach,
You turned my world around.... And I know I turned yours in a way you never thought your world could turn. Getting you into things you would never imagine, taking the things you would fantasize about and making them your reality. I'm glad I was the one to show you a taboo side of not only sex but life as well! I should not be glad about this but I am glued to you for some reason.
       Your
   Juicy Olive"

Yours Alone!

You seem to be
More than just a dream to me
Feeling your hand embrace my ass
A squeeze
A slap
A gentle touch
Pulling me close

A slight whisper in my ear makes me quiver

A gentle touch makes me get goose bumps

A kiss on the cheek makes me blush

What you do to me
You make me wonder
Is this really true

I am yours
Do with me what you will

Beat me
Bruise me
Bite me
Kiss me
Touch me
But just
Love me

More than a dream to me
You embrace me
I am yours
Always will be

Let me be the fire that burns through you
Let me be the one that makes your blood boil
Let me be your addiction

The kisses never end
Enhancing with intensity as you pull me closer
Our grip on each other gets stronger
Wanting to just be in your arms always

I am Yours
Yours alone

Sex is an Addiction

Sex is an addiction

The adrenaline rush

The connection between two

It's more than looks

You could be blind and still be able to see everything

Blind folded or just simply shutting your eyes

Enhances tour senses everywhere else

The soft touch of ones hands

Slightly gliding against your skin

The soft kiss placed on various parts

The orgasmic rush you get as your mind wonders,

thinking when will he enter

When will you feel his full embrace

Then intense feeling you get as he finally enters

Never wanting it to stop

But when it does you think more about how you felt

and how it made him feel

The moaning

The grunts

The Oh Shit's, Damn's filling the air

The stiffening of our bodies

The feeling of how tight you got around him

The pulsating feeling you got from him alone

Makes you always want more

Sex is the addiction

I am addicted to

No Mirror's the Same!

You seem to hold my eye contact more than any one else before

You seem to have made me less self-conscious 

You seem to made me believe in my self more

You are my one of a kind

You are my Master

Sir

Daddy

I look in the mirror now and see

You pulling my hair 

Making my head go back 

Telling me

"Look at your self look at what I see!"

As I glance up I see 

My naked body 

As you Caress me 

Still pulling my hair

You pull me close

Looking in the mirror you are

As I stare back at you 

You slowly stick in your throbbing cock 

As I try to back into you 

You shove it in

Feeling it deep inside me

I Moan

Can't help but to start throwing my self back toward you

Then you stop

You pull my hair once more

Telling me to look in the mirror

Now all I see is myself moaning

As you continue to Fuck me

Now looking in every mirror I come across

I see us

You loving on the body I so despise

Your eyes glaring at me

You smirking

Loving on the fact that I'm Yours

And I hear the word you so whisper in my ear

No mirrors the same now

You seem to hold my eye contact more than any one else before

You seem to have made me less self-conscious 

You seem to made me believe in my self more

You are my one of a kind

You are my Master

Sir

Daddy

Wanting me to ride you

You tell me to get on top of you

Gently sticking your throbbing cock in

I slowing lower myself down on it

Feeling it go deep inside

I start to ride it

I try to close my eyes and put my head next to yours

But you don't want that

Your not having it

You demand and tell me

"Look at me I want to see you"

As we stare into each others eyes

It gets more intense

My body reacts and starts to ride faster

Feeling your cock now roughly and fast moving in and out of me

"Oh Fuck BabyGirl"

You moan

It starts to get even more intense

As you tell me your about to cum

I get the Urge

I feel myself getting tighter around you

"Fuck Daddy I'm about to Cum too"

I moan

As I feel you Cum deeply inside me I can't help but to cum with you

Still staring into each others eyes

Catching our breath

Drenched in sweat

You have seen every inch and part of me

I am Yours

And you

You are my one of a kind

You are my Master

Sir

Daddy

Daddy's BabyGirl

The way you move your fingers through my hair

Grabbing me by my pigtails

Pulling me close to you

Knowing what that does to me

You continue to pull me even closer to you 

Let me feel your embrace

Place those morphine kisses on my lips

My cheek

Whispering in my ear 

That you 

Want me

You need me

How you want me on all fours on the bed with my ass in the air

waiting for you and your belt to leave welts

Whipping it and rubbing it making it feel good

Making me all wet from every lash 

I am his BabyGirl

I am his Princess

I am his Little Whore

I am HIS

He is my Daddy

He is my Master

He is my Boss

Who takes care of me

I love him more then life its self

He is my world

He is my life

He owns me

He adores me

He says he loves me

As his fingers travel down past my navel 

towards my soaking pink wet pussy

as I feel his fingers start to wonder down there

I start to moan slightly 

when I feel his fingers start to penetrate me

My breath is taken away

and I start to breath heavier

moaning as he moves his fingers back and forth

I'm Daddy's little Whore

I'm his Sex Slave

I'm the one he can take out all his emotions on

He is always in my mind

He is always there

I can't picture my Life with out him

I mean our lives will go on 

But my love for him will never change

And my willingness to be his will never go away

He is my Daddy

And

I Am

His Princess

His Sex Slave

His Little Whore

That might all change 

But one thing that will not is that

I will always be his BabyGirl

Telling me to get on my knees

Embracing every inch of him in my mouth 

feeling him hit the back of my throat

As I take him deep

He moans

I love hearing his moan

That means I'm doing it right

I love when he wants me

Telling me then to come and ride him

I have daddy issues

Yes

But if I didn't

I wouldn't have the relationship I have now

The excitement

The fun

The adrenaline rush

The new things we do

It was first just flirting

and playful sexual acts

But I got him into the BDSM world

And 

Now he is my Daddy

My one and only

I get on top of him like he asks

well tells me to

And I ride him slow then bounce my ass

so I can feel him going deep inside me

feeling every inch

pushing in me

I can't control my urge to cum

I ask  him "Daddy can I Cum"

He then tells me "Cum for me"

And as I do I feel him bust inside me as he to moans with me

We might not be one together

but we sure in Hell are not apart

when we are together

He will always be my Daddy

My Master 

My Sir

And 

I will always be his Little Whore

His Princess

His BabyGirl! 

I Love Him

Even if I'm not his

He will always be Mine!

I truly am Daddy's BabyGirl!

Intimacy!? Passion!?

Intimacy....

Intimacy and Passion....

Two different or one in the same

For me being intimate with someone is hard, but then I start to think isn't being passionate and intimate the same thing? 

Being intimate means that you are really comfortable with that person!

Passionate is simply putting feeling behind something!

        Let's talk about Passion first just cause it talks for itself unlike intimacy, Passion is just like what I said your putting feeling behind it. Whether it be sex, a job, something you love to do. When it comes to sex everyone puts passion behind it. Due to the fact because they love the sensation of being inside or on top of someone else, as well as the sensation of having an orgasm. So there is always passion behind it, even those into BDSM and into different fetishes. There is always passion behind it because they love what they do, how they do it and the result from it. There will always be passion behind something you enjoy doing. 

         

        Now sex is not only passionate, but usually intimate as well, to have sex you have to have some sort of connection with someone. Whether it be a one night stand, with a bf/gf, husband/wife ect, or even if your under the influence there still is always a connection. Now I think that you have to have an even stronger connection to be able to stare into someone's eyes while your having sex. True or not I'm not 100% sure, maybe I'm saying this because I barely look into anyone's eyes during sex. Even just having a simple conversation with someone I tend to not look into someone's eyes for a long period of time maybe a few seconds or so. I have "intimacy" issues you can say, looking into someone's eyes unlocks a whole new side of the word "intimacy". 

          Recently I experienced a whole new level of intimacy! I don't know what was going on between me and this person. Me and him had a crazy connection sexually and just laying there talking! Sexually it was a whole new experience, not only did we look into each others eyes we took our time and he listened. Usually he's the one taking charge and I'm the one listening! This time I took charge....ok well I didn't take charge I just told him to slow it down. Even though we like it rough and fast which feels amazing, it was something new and he listened and slowed it down. It definitely made the sex hotter, and reached more orgasms then ever! It's crazy how taking your time can make you feel a whole different way and experience something completely new. I think doing this makes you see the person and yourself in a different level; meaning you not only see them as your boyfriend, a friends with benefits or even a good lay you see them on a more intense level. It's hard to explain you just have to do to understand! This made me and this person have a deeper connection especially when he told me it was his first time staring into someone else's eyes during sex. I saw the "Passion" in his eyes, and when we were just laying there talking again it was something I never experienced as well. Just talking about everything and still looking into each others eyes making the conversation a bit intimate. I bring up Intimacy and Passion due to the fact we actually brought it up in our conversation. He even told/asked me "You have intimacy issues don't you?!", I wonder how he could tell. He said "Because you don't look into my eyes when you talk to me.". Well he definitely hit the nail on the head with that one! We looked into each others eyes when we were talking, but I still can't just stare into someones eyes for a long period of time. He is the first person that I stared into his eyes during sex, and the first person that I looked into his eyes for longer than I can usually when we were talking.

        I keep asking myself though why did that happen? Was it the liquor? Why exactly did we keep the eye contact? No I'm not in Love, I mean i have love for him I care about him. No were not dating, nor is this a friends with benefits..... Can't put a label on what we have/ what we are..... He is the one person who always makes me think! It could be anything and here I am thinking! So like anything else we talk about, he says to me, or does it makes me think!

Can you be intimate without having passion? Or can you be passionate with out being intimate?

  I think you can not have one without the other when it comes to sex. It's more of a view point on how passionate and intimate you are with someone, either way there is still a little of both in it!

Intimacy....

Intimacy and Passion....

Two different or one in the same?

Going to try and write a Novel in 30 days starting in November!

Write a novel in 30 days?
What the fuck am i going to write my novel about?

I was put up to this challenge from a Co-worker, he said i should write what i know about sex! But how am i supposed to write this? How am i supposed to come up with this?
Should i go towards like a 50 Shades of Grey type novel or like a Twilight?
So confused! So lost!

HELP!!!!

Cant wait to do this! I'm not really a writer but what the hell!
I can try! Can't I?!
We will see!

To my some Viewers out there!

I want to try something!
Any questions?
About BDSM? SEX? Making LOVE even?

or just your thoughts? i can talk about anything sex related im not shy!
comment, or private email me!

tayjuggalettebaybay@gmail.com

I'm interested into what you guys/ girls, woman, men, and the LGBTQ community are thinking of! 

BDSM!

BDSM
What is the first thing people think of when they hear this? 50 Shades of Grey? Chained? Whipped? Spanked? Handcuffed? Well yes, but there is more to it.

Let me first start off with saying what BDSM is! It's actually a few things in one!
B/D is Bondage and Discipline
D/S is Dominance and Submission
S/M is Sadism and Masochism
Now you don't have to like all of it, you can like/love, be interested in just one.

B&D Bondage and Discipline
      Have you ever thought about what it would be like to be blindfolded, tied up, being spanked, being disciplined? Well here is where you can try and possibly enjoy it. Bondage is the use of restraints to enhance pleasure while Discipline gives the rules, punishment to control or be rewarded. Now people can take it to a sexual level or keep it as mild and playful as foreplay. It's also used as a gateway to deep emotional experiences, and or self discovery. You can try anything and everything from the softest thing being blindfolded to being tied up to an x.


D&S Dominance and Submission
       When you had those thoughts about being blindfolded, tied up, spanked, and disciplined: did you ever think about someone being in control of your body, mind and soul. Being a Submissive is a role you want to be put in! You claim nothing, you are the one claimed! You live to serve you Dominant, the one you love to serve. Now D/S relationship don't have to include intercourse they sometimes don't ever meet! What I mean by this is that they can have a D/S relationship over the phone, by email, text, video chatting, person to person, through anything by anything. When you are physical you can also use B/D. When being a Sub and you are a virgin (meaning that you are new to the Dom and Submissive scene) it's better to get a Dom who has more experience. Because than they can teach you everything they know! They can also go through what you like and dislike, what your willing to try, what you don't want to try at all. You don't have to stick to one Dom, you can play around until you find the right one! Now a beginer Dom is different you could study how to be one by yourself, or you can be an apprentice and be taught everything an experienced Dominant. If you are with a beginer Dom or a virgin Sub or both, you will learn what the other can stand, loves, hates etc.

S&M Sadism and Masochism
       Out of all Three S&M is the most physical. S&M is whips, chains, spanking, biting, bruises, welts, and some take it to the point of bleeding. Now to some people might be worried and thinking that it all leads to bleeding or that it hurts! Well it does hurt but Sadists and
Masochists say pain is pleasure! And not all do it to the point of blood, just some you have to have the taste for it. Now each one of these leads into the other, but doesn't have to be you could just love bondage and discipline, or love being dominated or dominating, or just like a little hair pulling and getting bit. It can be part of your role playing, or something you do cause you like/love it. Back to S&M the rough sex, the rough foreplay can be to much for some. When i said you have to have the taste for it I meant you have to have the interest in giving or receiving the pain. Some of the stuff that can be done and used is nipple torture (nipple clamps, pinching are a couple). Penis and ball torture, vagina torture, you can do anything with that squeeze, clamp, step on etc. Paddling is a form of spanking but with a paddle, spanking, slapping. Whipping you can use anything to whip someone, you can use an actual whip, a wire, even a wire hanger. I know sounds painful but with the right person doing it and taking care of you feels maybe almost better than sex. Well ok it's a great way to lead into having extraordinary sex! I'm going to share two of my favorite forms of Pleasure! Biting I love biting and being bit in the right spot with the right pressure behind it can just leave you feel weak, intoxicated, mesmerized and on top of that wanting more! The other is Hot Wax, yes i said it Hot Wax. As it hits your skin its hot of course but it doesn't stay hot! It actually goes from hot to soothing. So like biting if you pour it on the right spots it will send you through a trance. With these forms of torture they all can leave you to want nothing but MORE!

What i enjoy about BDSM is that you can be just into one or all! On top of that you can enjoy everything not just plain sex. You can add your own flavor to it, change things up, you dont have to do just like i said simple sex. Its individuality, it's a relationship outside of a real relationship, or a relationship inside a relationship, it's you and your partner! What i mean about a relationship outside a relationship is that you can have your husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend etc. But you can also have your Dom/Sub outside of that. Which should be talked to with your partner or even try it with your partner. But if someone doesn't like what is done to them or they can not fulfill the role of making you sub or torturing you than I'm sorry you need your needs met too. Trust me I'm a people pleaser and i love it, but i need my needs met as well.

This symbol represents BDSM as a whole B&D, D&S,and S&M! The three divisions also represents the behavior Safe, Sane and Consensual. As well as our community Tops, Bottoms, and switches. The holes represent the incompleteness of any individual that in the BDSM community. The curved lines is where one ends and the other begins. But all in all it represents UNITY!   

About this blog!

This blog is about The world and SEX. 

There is a lot of similarities and a whole lot of differences. But the Word SEX is very Taboo to everyone some more than others. We do it with the one we love, significant other,  one night stands, someone on the corner, someone you picked up at the bar etc. But this word interests me a lot What it means! What it stands for! Different things that include it! Everything! 

It's not that I enjoy doing it. I do but it's more than that, it's knowing about it! What are the different ways? What is BDSM? What goes into an ogasm? What is an orgasm? Things like this get my my wondering, not in a perverted way either. It just peaks my interest a lot.

I wanted to write this for the exact fact that the word itself is TABOO! And just because it might be taboo doesn't mean people shouldn't know about it!

Your mind is the most Powerful tool throughout your whole body!

When you hear the word SEX!
How do you picture it?
How does it make you feel?
What do you think about?
Well your mind plays a huge role. (no not like bdsm)( if you dont know what that is well ill explain later) Some people picture it as a scene they seen in porn or on tv... Well listen all in good fun it could be but it's never is how its pictured on tv or in porn! Now this is one way your mind is powerful when you start to think of it, it helps you relax but at the same time it starts to higher your heart rate. Your mind makes you feel how you want to feel. Gets you going before you even begin, begin intercourse and or masturbation that is. Your mind can also get you to the point of no return. Meaning it can get you to the point of orgasm if you think hard enough.

I asked a close friend (you can say) the previous questions: How do you picture it? How does it make you feel? What do you think about? And his response was surprising, yet shocking, but was definitely endearing! I asked a guy because it gives me a different perspective and I'm writing this as a woman's perspective. So when i asked how does he picture it? He said He pictures grabbing someone by their neck and kissing them before moving, their head up and kissing their neck as his other hand finds its way onto their ass. He didn't go on but i got the picture. When i asked how does it make you feel and what do you think about? He responded with that it makes him feel slightly excited, and sets off a chain of dirty pictures. He also stated that guys are visual people. They need to see who they are caressing in front of them in order to be fully aroused! In order to reach an orgasm?! Well I don't know if you guys might know this or not but if you  really concentrate you could reach orgasm just by thought! 

When you see a picture, karma sutra, hentai etc, it gets your mind going. You start thinking about how it would please you. How it would feel. Each position, each spank, each bite, each lick etc. With the pictures than you think about who is with you whether it be an anime character, fictional, non-fictional, somebody you know, or work with, and or someone you just met, it could even be a blowup doll.If you think it enough you semi can feel it. Its hard to explain all i can say is that your brain simulates other parts of your body, with that your body responds to the stimuli and chemicals. It makes your body start to work! Start to feel all the different sensations. What makes it even more wilder is that when you have that one person actually touch you, kiss you and speak to you that's another thing added to your thoughts.

What made me come up with this blog post is that i dont have to watch porn, hentai, read it, or even see it. It's words that can get to me and gestures (non sexual gestures). Its weird i know but just think about it, if you have a connection with someone than that could be the start of it. Once you have that connection than you have everything else, meaning you have those words spoken to you or sent to you through messages. You have those little gestures, the winks, smiles, sticking tongues out at each  other, and the laughs. Yes i said laughs, you read it right! It's those combined that can make my mind just wonder! With out the person actually being there your mind just wonders and does it's own thing. You think about the first kiss he or she gave you, the first time you were caressed (sexually non-sexually). When you just imagine it feels like its real.